saba, I deleted the remainder of your comment. Is this nikah valid or not.do reply pls. 4. here in this book moulana said ''If both the man and woman are mature, they can perform their own nikah. Additionally, you may want to consider a wedding venue right beside the mosque, providing easy access to prayer during prayer time, and privacy while youre enjoying your happy moment. If the father is deceased or there is some reason that he cannot walk her down the aisle, so to say, then another male guardian or relative can take on that role. You can't "recognize" each other as married and believe that's all that counts. It also greatly affects women in the U.S., as approximately 40 children are married each day in America. to the Imam. Contents I know it must be dificult for you to leave that man, but if you want your hereafter to be jannah then you will have to severe all ties with this man. (Both you and your wife/husband to be). Zawaj misyar is a perversion of everything marriage is supposed to stand for. they assume witness to Allah to avoid unwanted happenings, now they are getting merried in real. Is it still ok for us to Nikah? Besides, the essential requirements of nikah are proposal and acceptance! Me n my gf living in different countries once on telephone I said her i m putting my hands on holy Quran and keeping Almighty Allah in front I accept u as my wife n i did put my hands on holy Qur'an she replied me the same and said I also accept u as my husband - my question is that is such nikaah counted in Allah's eye does it valued in Islam I have already told my parents about it but her parents have not accepted that n doing her marriage with someone else. 3) Witnesses. zobia, wa alaykum as-salam. In this case, as far as Islam is . Nikah is a religious ceremony that declares and announces a Muslim couple legally wed under Islamic Law. I am only quoting what I hve heard I do not have any refrence from Hadees or Quran for this. This situation is exactly the type in which one needs to practice 'sabr/patience'. It is my understanding that 2 or3 of the imams (Abu Hanifah, Malik, Ibn Hanbal and al-Shafi'i) opine that the consent of the wali is not necessary if the persons are majors. Sahil, wa alaykum as-salam. This story just touched my heart and it moved me to come up with legislation to outlaw child marriage, Ramos said. ..and she has not made any signature. I would agree with Br Wael that you should read the advice already given, as it seems very relevant to your situation. We are not scholars or muftis. i understand where you are coming from but what would you advise the sister to do if she is having difficulty in preventing her from commiting zina with her boyfriend? He believes in humanity and his that attitude inspired me and i fell in love with him. Amin says her past has taught her resiliency and how to survive. Should I stay married, divorce, or marry a second wife? still I will ask that if a nikah conducted by an immam, with maher and two witnesses from a girl and a boy side and their parents dont know about it. I would be concerned that this boy may be trying to take advantage of your cousin by manipulating her into a haraam relationship. The Pew Research Center says asking for judicial consent or presenting parents permission are ways to bypass the minimum age to marry in many states. I did nikah with my gf on phone without any qazi or witnesses.. is it a valid marriage if we both recognize husband and wife heartly My whole family knows about her and they have accepted us esp my Mom who has tried alot and still she is trying her best to convince her family for our nikkah. Who is to blame for this? but, iam not sure about so please tell me what should i do? Imam Steve Mustafa Elturk is the president of the Islamic Organization of North America (IONA) in Warren, Michigan. In fact, Allah tells us in the Quran to follow a bad deed with a good one. Often when the woman becomes pregnant, the man divorces her, because he has no interest in a genuine family life. All Imams have their own fees and are treated as independent contractors. Author has 137 answers and 39.9K answer views 2 y. 1. But I know that my two-and-a-half years of work was really worth it. However, it does not make the Nikah without a marriage license invalid. 3. It has to be public. I don't really understand your question. Mahrul Mithl. Please be sure to acquire the Marriage License form the city hall of the municipality you reside in. ..? May you have a very blessed Ramadan. The Real marriage is before the eyes of Allah not mayor of your town (in France, the civil marriage is concluded with mayor or his assistant) Do the Nikkah before civil marriage is a lot better. The groom still needs to ask permission from the girl's family and it cannot be a secret marriage. Yasmin, the problem is not the witnesses - any two adult Muslims can act as witnesses - but the lack of a wali. the fact that you want to be secretive makes me assume it is a temporary fornication, forgive me if i am wrong, if it is proper marriage then make it open, let there be witnesses and do it in the mosque even if ur parents are against it! Islamic faith marriages not valid in English law, appeal court rules (Remainder of question has been removed. That is important, not what society feels or thinks. Purchase the marriage license from any city hall in Ontario (Please keep in mind that it expires, 3 months from the date of purchase). Again, make nikah rather than being in a relationship out of nikah. i dont want to do nikkah to get physical with her! Our Births, Marriages and Deaths Recorded in Canada database is an index to a few collections held at Library and Archives Canada that include some references to marriages. Additionally, while the Nikah is supposed to be as simple as possible, so as not to place a financial burden on the couple, the event can become quite glamorous as people tend to mix Islamic and Western traditions. On the other hand, the husband is not obliged to take (pay for) his wife for hajj but does so on the basis of ihsan because she looks after his home and children, if any. And I don't know if it's just me but I think secretly done nikah are never successful because you make Allah angry and when you make Allah angry how can you have his blessings and without his blessings how will you succeed in life. All booking time slots are now limited to one hour. plzzz help sirr. Reddit - Dive into anything Be sure to read the database section called The records, to find out what records . 3. Mala: Cant this type if ikah made prblm for the real one. It is easy for a guy to do a "secret" nikah with you and leave you after using your body - sorry, I am telling you like it is. And the reason why this is, because none of the people here are scholars or have ijazah to give comments or make an islamic judgement. i agree with all answers to the above question but i feel that the sister can not follow any of them. Ask for a marriage license. Forget about this match, brother. The brides wali along with 2 chosen witnesses need to be present at the time of marriage and will be required to sign documentation. and irregular marriage can be turned into vaild marriage later by producing witnesses valid?ccccc plzzz helllp soon.. zoya, see the answers already given, please. i wanna ask if we are married or not? May Allah bless your life together. A believing slave is better that a polytheist even though the latter may please you . The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) used to teach his companions to make istikhaarah in all things, just as he used to teach them soorahs from the Quraan. He said: If any one of you is concerned about a decision he has to make, then let him pray two rakahs of non-obligatory prayer, then say: , Allaahumma inni astakheeruka bi ilmika wa astaqdiruka bi qudratika wa asaluka min fadlika, fa innaka taqdiru wa laa aqdir, wa talamu wa laa alam, wa anta allaam al-ghuyoob. Naila Amin was 13 on her wedding day in Pakistan. as it was decided between us that she will disclose it if her parents refused again Take heed. In modern times, the marriage contract is signed in the presence of an Islamic judge, imam, or trusted community elder who is familiar with Islamic law. * Neel al Autar Volume 6 page 144 Bab Shahdath fi Nikah We read in Hidaya: 3 I give her my name and now whole her Hindu family know we both are married Wedding Blessings and Prayers From Different Cultures and Religions. If even one of them is missing your marriage is void/null/invalid. I have said many times for marriage to my parents. Is this a new tech way of doing nikah? Online Nikah USA, UK, Canada, UAE and Saudi Arabia Please log in and submit your question with more details so you can get a more accurate answer. If doing Nikah can prevent worse sins than its better to do it any way. you guys are screwed up. Bring the following documents on the day of the nikah: Marriage license from the County Clerk's office Valid photo IDs of both bride and groom DarusSalam will fill out the marriage license and return it to the County Clerk via mail. IF you have even a tiny grain-sized of fear of Allah in your heart, you will know the answer. Both my beloved sisters be happy because Allah swt loves you thats why His made you aware of your actions otherwise He could have let you go astry but it is only out of His mercy Alhamdulillah!!! [Editor's note: Please submit your question, in English if possible, as a separate post for publication rather than as a comment. Youll also need to provide 2 pieces of ID (driver license, passport, etc.) Just tell me the minimum requirements of nikah.because my dad is n0t agre.bt my m0m,and m0m dad of the bride are agree.can we d0 a secret nikah,like n0 cr0wd.just me,my m0m and bride with her m0m dad and her 2 sis with their husbands.and 2 or 3 friends of mine.is a m0lvi is must?or a nikah nama?or is it imp0rtant to get the molvi of y0ur own area? Allah (SWT) said: "And do not marry your womenfolk to disbelieving men until they believe. Nikah HAS to have witnesses for YOUR PROTECTION. The following conditions apply here: Our specialized family lawyers are available 24/7 for your assistance online. Open your eyes. Allaahumma wa in kunta talamu annahu sharrun li fi deeni wa maaashi wa aaqibati amri wa fi aajili amri wa aajilihi fasrifni anhu wasrafhu anni waqdur li al-khayr haythu kaana thumma radini bihi, (O Allaah, I seek Your guidance [inmaking a choice] by virtue of Your knowledge, and I seek ability by virtue of Your power, and I ask You of Your great bounty. Or any muslim The two are not married, and their relationship is improper. Can you suggerst me how to confirm. For nikah, you need your wali's consent. The Wali is the father of the bride who gives away his daughter. It is a serious sin. You just one someone to have sex with without having to be under any legal obligation towards that person. Naila Amin at 15; she was a child bride at 13 in Pakistan. Are you married? That's the problem, but we both know there is no such thing as engagement in Islam and we both are NaMehram for each other. You may also choose to do it at another place, such as a wedding venue or at your home. Then can we do nikkah without our parents or guardians because we both are mature and are willing. We provide our services for the Processing and Registration of the Nikah Certificates. It actually depends on which school of thought you are following. Please visit the following link for more information: https://ottawa.ca/en/3-1-1/apply-or-register/licences-and-permits/getting-marriage-license. I was confused actually my aunty said u are married infact i asked it from my Shariah and law Dean who is from Saudia.. Once you are divorced, you may then marry a Muslim man. I want to avoid adultery. Nikah means marriage and halala means to make something halal, or permissible. brother our partens agreed to get us married after 2 years but my wifes mother sister and other knows that we are married but as a boy my parrnts don.t know yet. I suggest you all ask your local scholar pertaining to your fiqh whether nikah is valid or not. If you have asked several Imams already then asking us is superfluous. The court heard evidence by the parties and pointed out that the term spouse for the purposes of the Ontario Family Law Act includes both couples who are married to each other, but also those who have together entered into a marriage that is voidable or void, in good faith In this case, even though the spouses had not obtained a legal marriage license, the religious marriage that they participated in was valid, if they both undertook it in good faith with and intended to be validly married to each other. If not, you don't need that person. Is a nikah allowed of a man and woman with 2 witnesses but no maulvi? @ Wael I am not satisfy about my nikah Obeying parents is a duty of every muslims. The Qur'an's reference to " a solemn contract" when it speaks of marriage goes beyond the concept of contract as in business ventures.For example, a wife is not obliged to cook for her husband but does so on the basis of his caring for her by going to work and giving her more than merely a monthly stipend (nafaqah). my friend had nikah, his husband read the nikah and they have done without any witness. If youd like us to officiate your blessed marriage at the Ottawa Mosque, we suggest a $300 gift for the mosque for onsite service. We tried to convince our parents for Nikah, but all those society things came between. A formal, binding contract - verbal or on paper [1] - is considered integral to a religiously valid Islamic marriage, and outlines the rights and responsibilities of the groom and bride. Choose the time and language for the ceremony. The fact that a marriage licence was issued, or that a couple has remarried, is not proof that a divorce was legal where it occurred, or that it would be recognized as legally valid in Canada. Amin, an activist, founded the Naila Amin Foundation to help victims of child marriage and has been pushing U.S. states to end it for years. In order for a marriage to be valid , there must be agreement from both parties, and the presence of the womans wali (guardian) and two Muslim witnesses of good character, and there should be no impediments in the case of either partner. There is no secret marriage in Islam. Judicial witness is the paper which you sign, social and ethical witnesses are those two human beings. It doesn't have to be expensive or complicated. There is no such thing as secret or double Nikkah in Islam. According to Hanfia School of thought an adult girl marry without consent of Wali. Can't deny it, but if you want, Islam allows you to marry and can keep ALLAH as your witness. And if there were no wali no witnesses and two people accepted each other as husbnd and wife in terms of nikah so if this nikah is not valid than can the girl do a real nikahwith someone else thanks, Your email address will not be published. As per I know it's still not allowed because girls need wali. If none of these walis are present, then the shar'i judge should act as wali for her marriage, because the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: "If they dispute, then the ruler is the guardian of the one who has no guardian.". For registration of marriages under this Ordinance, the Union Council shall grant licenses to one or more persons, to be called Nikah Registrars, but in no case shall more than one Nikah Registrar be licensed for any one Ward. Good to do so but one must read the entire article so as not to fall within the ambit of "What will you believe in a part of the BOOK and reject a part?" You are correct. In Islam, nikah is a contract between two people. If you feel that you cannot or have tried your level best (i.e. if you ask me if accept this for my sister i will say NO but it is still Halal The Prayer of Need (Salat al-Hajah) or Istikhara? Marriage License Document. Secret nikah first, then renew it publicly? No Food distribution is allowed inside the building. Any suggestions would be appreciated! Ive been surviving for the past 31 years, she said. please guide me are they did zina or that nikah is valid. how long the engagment period lasts doesnt matter but they at least can enjoy as if they are married and all muslims around will know that they are engaged and no one will doubt or accuse them of anything. Your wali is your male guardian, who has a duty to ensure your safety and wellbeing. can nikah be performed without qazi? My parents had no issues with us getting married and nor did his parents but we didn't wait and I just want to do right and face up to consequences. Marriage is void without wali according to Shafi'i. This is why it requires witnesses, and why you have a waleemah afterwards. AOA ! my situation is very different A woman and man may be married and divorced a 100 times, of course within the limits of the din, but the fact of the matter is that the relationship is halal! 2200 South Sheridan Way Mississauga, ON L5J 2M4. If you choose to ignore this advice and continue to convince yourselves that doing a nikah in secret is halaal, you are decieving no-one but yourselves. May Allah SWT bless your union. Some scholars say that a divorced woman does not need a wali. Once you and your partner have agreed to get married, planning a Nikah is similar to other events (after you have all the religious requirements in place, of course). Please read the list of the different sins in islam and their effects on your life ( the after life effects, every one is aware of). Engagement is celebrated between two families with functions regularly done in engagements. plz can i marry with my gf secretly bcoz she was dosnt want any one know about us. However, if the bride's parents agreed, then why were they not informed or invited? Nikah halala (Urdu: ), also known as tahleel marriage, is a practice in which a woman, after being divorced by triple talaq, marries another man, consummates the marriage, and gets divorced again in order to be able to remarry her former husband. Before you contact the Masjid or Imam for marriage/nikah, please follow the procedures below. She was eventually sent back to Pakistan right before she turned 15 to consummate the marriage. The Islamic Society of Cumberland provides Nikah (marriage) services. Alcohol, on the other hand, is forbidden in Islam so alcoholic drinks are rarely (if ever) served at any Muslim event. It is not acceptable to be physically close to your boyfriend before marriage. So if couple marry by a properly read khutbah by an imam without the consent of the wali and/or without witnesses, is this living in a hara relationship. There's a lot of Muslim not considering the Nikkah as the real marriage. . Your email address will not be published. That's what Allah want you to do. FAQ Muslim Wedding Service Lekin if they force u for nikah tu wo invalid b hai n gunah b on behalf of parents awin na islam ko or khencho. Your so called " husband" , seems to have a noble character , but because he is committing high treason against his Creator ( ALLAH ( SWT) ), by rejecting Him, or by associating partners to Him, then no matter how good a character he has or how much of service he renders to others, it will not be valid in the sight of Allah (SWT) because the High Treason the Kufr and Shirk, by far, exceed all limits of disobedience, for which there can be no bail or parole. To request an appointment, please fill this form. Marriage Contract Conditions Can someone please confirm if this is valid? Allah(swt) states in Surah Al Baqarah 2:183: O ye who believe! The Mahr is also symbolic of the responsibility the man has for providing for and taking care of his wife. How does nikkah work if both do not have a wali? I feel Islam as a simple religion. Just tell me the minimum requirements of nikah.because my dad is n0t agre.bt my m0m,and m0m dad of the bride are agree.can we d0 a secret nikah,like n0 cr0wd.just me,my m0m and bride with her m0m dad and her 2 sis with their husbands.and 2 or 3 friends of mine.is a m0lvi is must?or a nikah nama?or is it imp0rtant to get the qazi of y0ur own area? she has never seen nikah nama and never did signature. Make bookings for either Nikah services or to use the facility (or both) by calling 416-264-3900. (Off-site at separate location) $100 for paying-members of Masjid Ikhlas, $150 for non-paying members. so will it be accepted as nikah????????? What is Rukhsati? In that case, the Wali (the father of the bride) can accept the Nikah and marriage contract on behalf of the bride. Have some consciousness of Allah. i apologise for having mixed my own story in here when i should have answered her question but i am in a similar situation and felt the need to talk. i just want it to do to talk to her. Its not right. both spouses should tell parents that they love each other and they want to get engaged ONLY. Gov. yes You are right Both of you need to tell your parents that you want to marry. We have been only together for four months, and we want to make our relationship halal. Food for thought. I am so sick of crying over this because its like repeating myself all over again. 3. otherwise, after all intertainment and enjoyment he might think of divorce before wedding and this what always happens. Ah. In so doing, the nikah will be valid. But hiding things from your families might give you what you want in the short run, but in the long run you'll put yourself in a very ugly situation that may lead you to regret ever meeting one another. It is mentioned that if a male and female are mature enough they can consume marriage and that is valid It made me realize that there is a fire inside of me that cant be extinguished. If you need further advice please register and submit your question as a separate post. Instead, you need to immediately have a correct nikah, with your family involved. I'm confuse,I love my gF & she also loves me too much.. Quite a lot of sisters who have reverted to Islam find that they need to have an imam act as their wali until they are married. They are not agree now because I am just 21. Roja, this doesn't make sense to me and doesn't sound like any kind of nikah. Ensure the Wali (Male guardian of the bride) is present at the marriage. mr. saf, what do you mean, "the islamic engagement is completely marriage." If you are sincere with your lover/bf/gf/whatever first off you won't indulge in physical activities unless you have made it legal in the eyes of Allah, family, society.
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